Showing posts with label Win-Win. Show all posts
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Saturday, October 12, 2013

Vunak's Top 50 Combat Secrets Ch. 35



Chapter 35 – The Best Curriculum

In this particular column, we are going to further our exploration and refinement in the Art of Teaching. Remember…In Descendants of the Masters, we like to break things down from the 30,000 foot view in 3 aspects.

  1. We want our instructors to be masterful at sparring and fighting.
  2. We want our martial art to be our business. Our financial income to provide for our families.
  3. And finally we want to use our Martial Art as a vehicle to enter the spiritual door(this is the art of giving back).


To a martial artist, their curriculum is their product. Typically when students are searching for whomever they are going to be taught by(The flagship that initially attracts them is one’s curriculum), so the $64,000 question is, what is the best curriculum ? Of course when we use the term best, we must first define what the term best actually means. Simply put, with our business hats on, as business men, the word best means, that one is able to get the most people possible, as emotional as possible.

So what are the things, that actually impress most people ? The most popular subject in martial arts, and the most popular martial artist is Bruce Lee. The members of this club, actually get the privilege of using this gentleman’s name, because you are descendants of the man. So assuming, it is ethical and legal that one can use Bruce Lee’s name, the next most popular curriculum would revolve around MMA. People in the know, understand that the best fighters on the planet are in Mixed Martial Arts. The third most popular buzz word/curriculum, is Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. And finally, fourth place belongs to the enigmatic and direct art of Wing Chun.

So when one is devising a curriculum, it would be profoundly invaluable to use one of these aforementioned popular arts. After all there are over 3000 martial arts styles on the planet. If one is lucky enough to have one of these 4, they are going to do financially well. Now my question to you is, what if you could use all 4 of them, in one curriculum? My question to you is, what if you then threw eye jabs, groin shots, kinamutai on top of this curriculum ? Ladies and gentleman, members of our club, I can guarantee you, you can write your own ticket. If there is one catch, in this formula of wealth, it would be how do you combine all of these arts, into a two day seminar format ? Remember, my members have been and continue to travel around the world doing seminars (and most seminars are 2 days long, over the weekend). Regarding my question, (how do you combine all of this in a 2 day seminar), the answer is simple. You spend the next 20 years developing, refining, refining, developing, developing, refining, until you finally have, well it is the product that I am about to give you !!!

The 30,000 foot view of this curriculum is the ability to apply Wing-Chun, Tai-Chi, Footsweeps, and all of our self-perfection/self-preservation moves out of MMA. To this day people do not apply their martial arts techniques out of Mixed Martial Arts. They apply their techniques out of their own style. Finally after we have done all of our techniques out of the matrix of MMA, and combined Kinamutai, we integrate stick fighting, and the simple concept of De-fanging the Snake. I realize that some of you understood exactly what I just said, and to others their still might be a bit of ambiguity. So allow me to give you a literal and specific agenda.

1. Pac Sao of the retracting jab. 2. Double Pac Sao of the retracting jab. 3. Pac Sao Lop Sao of the retracting jab. 4. Jow Sao High of the retracting jab. 5. Jow Sao Low off of the retracting jab. 6. After said traps have been completed, engage in the Thai Clinch Drill. 7. After said traps have been completed, engage in the Pummeling Drill 8. After both drills have been completed, complete a takedown, and engage in our specific Kinomutai advanced bite flow(This is the flow pattern that Singh did at the retreat).

Now the next two numbers that I am going to give you 9 and 10, are disproportionately more important than the previous 8.

9. One must do this curriculum with professional body mechanics. Remember you are going to have imitators all over the world. When separating those that imitate from those that duplicate there are two words, body mechanics.

And then finally there is number 10. Number 10, is when finally you have impressed everyone with your curriculum while exuding professional body mechanics. Now you have one final mission. Whoever brought you in, is going to undoubtedly want to spar with you. I’m not saying this is going t be any big dramatic challenge, I’m not saying this is going to be some big blood bath. But I am going to say this, ego is ego. And every sponsor that has flown me in, in their own way has wanted to spar with me.

Sparring can be broken down in 4 areas, standing up, ground fighting, weapons sparring, and chi-sao. If you do a great seminar, and loose to the sponsor sparring, they will never call you back again. If you do a great seminar, and beat the sponsor sparring, there is a 50/50 chance they will call you back. However, if you do a great seminar, beat the sponsor sparring, and then do it in a humble way, then you complement the sponsor so that he feels good about being beaten. Now we have a win win for everyone, you, your sponsor, and your career. See ya next Week !





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Saturday, September 14, 2013

Badger Johnson - Adding to Arnold's Six Principles of Success



On July 30, 2013 I posted:



My friend, Badger Johnson, sent me a few add-on's on Facebook. I requested of him to flesh out the few he had. He came back instead with a whole article! Posted below with his kind permission is that article.

My deepest gratitude to Badger Johnson for sharing his Principles of Success and of his time, experience and knowledge.





Adding to Arnold's Six Principles of Success:

  1. It's all about the 'how', not the 'what'. Many books tell you what do to but don't help you to figure out how to do it. How do you start, how do you monitor, how do you proceed, how do you keep it up.
  2. First learn how to be your own coach. Look at what coaches do - they gather data on your performance. They proceed in graded steps - nobody got to the Olympics in one step.
  3. Don't take yourself too seriously. Note how many top athletes when they can't win at top level competitions, just stop all together. Note how many SEALS who are in tiptop shape, once they are out of the arena just go all to hell. If they didn't take themselves too seriously they'd be able to reduce their expectations and still be winners. You also want to avoid hubris or having too full of a cup to learn from anyone, even a child.
  4. Understand 'expectations'. They can both gel and hinder you. If your expectations are such, and another path opens up you might be too restricted to modify. If you expect something big and something 'ok' comes along you might be prevented from taking a favorable path. Certainly don't unnecessarily lower your expectations, but don't let them rule you.
  5. Let your partner bring their 'A game'. IOW, don't be so overwhelming that you stuff all opportunity, only work from strength and thus stuff your partner's 'game'. By game I mean anything and everything. By letting others bring their A game and by taking a weakened position (such as being mounted in BJJ) you learn to develop your flow and your technique. You fill gaps and holes in your game. You develop synergy. Thanks to Prof Pedro Sauer for this insight.
  6. Go for the win-win scenario over the 'crush your opponents'. If both can win a little in a negotiation both feel better, and you can come back and negotiate again, people respect this. You don't back people into a corner or make them lose face unnecessarily. Works in business and self-defense. Nobody's coming back to the bar with a chain saw after you because you made them unduly lose face.
  7. Nobody's perfect. We all have problems, or neuroses. Rather than deny your weaknesses, know your limits, work within them. If your foot is hurting, work your upper body, don't get all morose and quit. Manage your neuroses by seeing them as opportunities. Own both your wins and your losses. Win and lose gracefully in all areas, big and small. You are not weighed down by grudges and resentments.
  8. Keep a journal and track your progress or lack of same. You can't see the 'big picture' without help. Now we have computers, blogs, online calorie counters. It's much easier to track your workouts, your progress and you can see where you peak and learn how to taper (mentally and physically). If you're journalling you are much less likely to miss a workout and leave a blank entry.
  9. Be aware of synergy. Look for it. If you're taking your vitamins and getting out for fresh air, soon you think, 'well, I should eat a little better, if I'm spending money on supplements or I'm wasting them).
  10. Manage your 'training dollar'. We only have so much time to train or learn or study. Try to realize the Paredo principle - 80% of your success comes from 20% of your work.
  11. The keys to success are consistency, not getting injured, and taking small steps. They are not so much found by doing a great effort then backing off for a month. Small steps daily add up. Track them. See the big picture. Learn how your body and mind work. Don't worry if you're having a down period, because you want to track that too.
  12. Learn how to research. Look for root causes and go to the original source. Make weak aspects strong. By journalling you are researching your own experience.
  13. Learn 'how to think'. By that I mean how to think deeply, try to figure out the how. People say 'think outside the box'. What's more important is figure out -how- to do that. How do people learn to think laterally. Some of it is getting a 10,000 foot view. Some of it is seeing how others have done things. Look for times when you applied a clever, elegant solution. Something is elegant when it is simple, direct and can be expressed in just a few words.
  14. Look for landmarks, develop a framework. From that you can go back and put things into the framework and have it work for you. Your framework if elegantly constructed will help problem solve. Keep records of problems you've solved and be aware that the 'emotional response is not always the best way'. It's about 'what works'.
  15. Internalizing. Thinks can be apparent and you might know what to do, but until that urge comes from inside yourself you are not truly free. Figure out how to make your values and your emotions come into alignment. A person who can do that, a person who is not at the mercy of the first person that can anger them is truly evolved. We internalize by positive and negative self-talk, done consistently and if possible done while moving and utilizing the breath. 
Some more ideas are: 
  • 'discover how to stress test your methods', 
  • 'seek to be a black belt in all areas of life, even ones that scare you like finances', 
  • 'learn how to listen, how to mirror what others (especially your partner) is telling you'.

Anytime you hear someone say something about a 'what to do' stop and think to yourself 'what is the 'HOW' of that?'. How do you accomplish this 'what to do' suggestion'. It's all about the how. Most of the time we find out how after a long trial and error, but if you listen you can go more directly, even though you take baby steps you get there sooner. Also remember you can't tell anyone anything - they have to have it come to them from inside. Even if they know it's true it won't work as an external thing.
Thus a good therapist is good at listening and perhaps mirroring and the client sees things and they come true from inside effecting real change.

Though I sometimes feel I have a lot to say, sometimes I make myself just shut up and listen and listen. It's something you must practice.

Hope this is of use, Stick!
-Badger 2013.






The above article expands on 2 previous entries by Badger which he graciously allowed me to share:





Please check out Badger Johnson's other essays:



Here's to your Success!


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